suffering Archive

  • A Prayer Answered

    A Prayer Answered

    The past week or so has been tumultuous.  Writing is hard, and my focus is not really where I want...
  • The Capacity to Love

    The Capacity to Love

    During the last few weeks, my life seemed impossible.  I was grumpy and sour.  If life is equal to capacity...
  • Guilt Blindness and Befuddled Bodhisattvas

    Guilt Blindness and Befuddled Bodhisattvas

    “Oh, holy smokes!” I interrupted Mary in the middle of our conversation.  After more than a month, we had finally...
  • Coming Joy

    Coming Joy

    Opening out into something beautiful, the crystal clear, blue-green sea–I keep dreaming of it, and now those dreams are coming...
  • I Hope You Dance

    I Hope You Dance

    I found a book in an old box that made me realize what the last three years of my life...
  • Jump In

    Jump In

    The water’s fine!  The expanded self, or luminosity–entering it is like learning to dive into a river.  Over time and...
  • Dissolving the Past

    Dissolving the Past

    Your body carries a record of your past experiences, some deep and old and intense, but the past no longer...
  • Love Like You Cannot Imagine

    Love Like You Cannot Imagine

    In Tibet, they believe that it is possible to foresee, at the beginning of a relationship, how it will unfold,...
  • A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    You cannot ask the universe for something if you cannot conceive of it.  In November of last year, I went...
  • From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    A table of observations on how specific emotions transform automatically into blissful energy.
  • A Snoot Pointing to the Moon

    A Snoot Pointing to the Moon

    Pointing to the moon is tricky when its light is found within, but don’t let that stop you.
  • Delusion and Possibility

    Delusion and Possibility

    The deepest healing occurs when we open to the possibility that our perspective can change.
  • Bliss of the Unresolved

    Bliss of the Unresolved

    An otherwordly contentment filled my day today.  Something that should have caused me sadness brought me peace and tenderness instead. ...
  • Full Circle

    Full Circle

    A chance to be burdened makes it possible to see the immense love that surrounds those who suffer.
  • The Perfect Face

    The Perfect Face

    Amid memories of disappointing a former love, a prayer for a more beautiful face is answered in minutes.
  • The Ultimate Psychic Boundary

    The Ultimate Psychic Boundary

    The notion of psychic boundaries reminds me of the boy who lived his life in a bubble.  Protection is lovely,...
  • Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Is your heart heavy today?  I could feel its weight just as the clouds began to fill the sky.  A...
  • Longings to Share the Luminous Sky

    Longings to Share the Luminous Sky

    Yesterday, I was sitting on a bench out on a boardwalk suspended over a cattail marsh.  I felt so absolutely...
  • Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    If you ask for healing, watch your thoughts. Sometimes the divine speaks with our own inner voice.
  • Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Moments of unconditional opening that arise in romantic love offer a taste of the tantric approach to all of life.
  • She Washed His Feet With Her Tears

    She Washed His Feet With Her Tears

    Forgiveness and redemption are healing, but you can still find wholeness even when others cannot offer it.
  • More Than Words: Love That Defies Explanation

    More Than Words: Love That Defies Explanation

    Friday night I felt love pouring out of me for someone I once knew. Love transcends the past.
  • How Matter Reflects Mind

    How Matter Reflects Mind

    Thoughts on how the outer world reflects the inner world and the intricacies of manifestation.
  • Awakening of the Masculine Heart

    Awakening of the Masculine Heart

    A recurrent dreams foretells a shift. As the feminine regains wholeness, the masculine faces storms ahead.
  • The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    Archetypal wisdom on how women’s “falling apart” can open the doors to awakening.
  • The Power of Later

    The Power of Later

    Enter the real “now” by letting go of your concepts of the present.
  • Then the Divine Served Me!

    Then the Divine Served Me!

    Ripples from a monumental act of love now fill my world.  In the presence of profound kindness, every molecule of...
  • The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    Where does suffering originate, and how does one eliminate it? A psychiatrist is someone who, seeing an unusually sad character...
  • Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Periods of strain can erode your strength and test your faith in life, but there are ways to approach them...
  • Love Your Pain Self

    Love Your Pain Self

    When we experience pain, we create a pain self.  This pain self is connected to a subset of our usual...
  • Blissful Just As Things Are

    Blissful Just As Things Are

    Today, I stopped praying for things to get easier.  It just occurred to me that it wasn’t necessary.  For many...
  • Zen Dancing: Samadhi Through Movement

    Zen Dancing: Samadhi Through Movement

    Learn to move with the feelings in your body, approaching them directly rather than through thought.
  • Good Night Moon

    Good Night Moon

    We are never cut off from love. I say farewell to a former love and find that exclusion feels good.
  • Why Confront Your Demons?

    Why Confront Your Demons?

    An integration of Zen emptiness with New Age form offers one approach to healing our collective samsara.
  • Spring in the Dead of Winter

    Spring in the Dead of Winter

    In this frozen moment, your warm consciousness finds all existence waiting.
  • You Are Brand New

    You Are Brand New

    If you are beset by a negative self-image, especially one that is self-fulfilling and reflected back to you by others...
  • Now What?

    Now What?

    What would you do if your lifelong search for wholeness finally reached the finish line?  If the problems you devoted...
  • Bliss, Literally

    Bliss, Literally

    Again and again, I have this same experience.  Some situation in my life is causing pain, something I can hardly...
  • Keeping Enlightenment at Bay

    Keeping Enlightenment at Bay

    Take a breath.  Feel the air enter your body.  Embrace every sensation, thought, and emotion coursing through you in this...
  • A Long Awaited Apology

    A Long Awaited Apology

    There comes a time when the dark forces in your life step into the light, remove their masks, and reveal...