love Archive

  • Data, Data Everywhere and Not a Drop to Think

    Data, Data Everywhere and Not a Drop to Think

    Analyzing the data for my dissertation is highlighting for me the limits of intellectual knowing.  Welcome to the Zen of...
  • I Hope You Dance

    I Hope You Dance

    I found a book in an old box that made me realize what the last three years of my life...
  • Dissolving the Past

    Dissolving the Past

    Your body carries a record of your past experiences, some deep and old and intense, but the past no longer...
  • This Moment is Home

    This Moment is Home

    Look up.  Set aside the empty box and the packing tape.  The sky is a a rich gleaming yellow with...
  • Love Like You Cannot Imagine

    Love Like You Cannot Imagine

    In Tibet, they believe that it is possible to foresee, at the beginning of a relationship, how it will...
  • A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    You cannot ask the universe for something if you cannot conceive of it.  In November of last year,...
  • From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    A table of observations on how specific emotions transform automatically into blissful energy.
  • Romance Movies, Where is the Love?

    Romance Movies, Where is the Love?

    Most romance movies seem so shallow.  Maybe my immersion in Buddhism has shifted my perspective.  Whatever it is, when...
  • Awake and Alive

    Awake and Alive

    Moments of luminous awareness, or awakening, are often described as an opening beyond oneself that encompasses everything just as it...
  • To Have and To Hold

    To Have and To Hold

    Mental imagery of the social landscape is just mental imagery. What do you have and hold when you love?
  • A Snoot Pointing to the Moon

    A Snoot Pointing to the Moon

    Pointing to the moon is tricky when its light is found within, but don’t let that stop you.
  • Delusion and Possibility

    Delusion and Possibility

    The deepest healing occurs when we open to the possibility that our perspective can change.
  • Hold Out Your Hand

    Hold Out Your Hand

    What power do we really have to manifest what we want?
  • Bliss of the Unresolved

    Bliss of the Unresolved

    An otherwordly contentment filled my day today.  Something that should have caused me sadness brought me peace and tenderness instead. ...
  • Full Circle

    Full Circle

    A chance to be burdened makes it possible to see the immense love that surrounds those who suffer.
  • Good Morning Moon

    Good Morning Moon

    The magic of this reality, synchronicities and signs and answered prayers, is good medicine for a time, but after awhile,...
  • The Perfect Face

    The Perfect Face

    Amid memories of disappointing a former love, a prayer for a more beautiful face is answered in minutes.
  • Moirae and Her Magic Eyes

    Moirae and Her Magic Eyes

    When you see the beauty in someone, how can you tell them about it? How can you show them...
  • All Good Things

    All Good Things

    A short story about the perpetuation of friendship in the face of grief and impermanence.
  • The Ultimate Psychic Boundary

    The Ultimate Psychic Boundary

    The notion of psychic boundaries reminds me of the boy who lived his life in a bubble.  Protection is lovely,...
  • Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Is your heart heavy today?  I could feel its weight just as the clouds began to fill the sky.  A...
  • Longings to Share the Luminous Sky

    Longings to Share the Luminous Sky

    Yesterday, I was sitting on a bench out on a boardwalk suspended over a cattail marsh.  I felt so absolutely...
  • Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    If you ask for healing, watch your thoughts. Sometimes the divine speaks with our own inner voice.
  • Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Moments of unconditional opening that arise in romantic love offer a taste of the tantric approach to all of life.
  • She Washed His Feet With Her Tears

    She Washed His Feet With Her Tears

    Forgiveness and redemption are healing, but you can still find wholeness even when others cannot offer it.
  • More Than Words: Love That Defies Explanation

    More Than Words: Love That Defies Explanation

    Friday night I felt love pouring out of me for someone I once knew. Love transcends the past.
  • The Temple is Open

    The Temple is Open

    The divine is always accessible. We don’t need to become perfect first in order to enter.
  • Why the Heart Closes

    Why the Heart Closes

    Apathy often has its roots in the odd, unexpected body memory of prior pain that is evoked by new love.
  • Empowering Comfort

    Empowering Comfort

    How to identify healthy forms of emotional support and healers that are empowering rather than disempowering.
  • The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    Archetypal wisdom on how women’s “falling apart” can open the doors to awakening.
  • The Perfection of Being Human

    The Perfection of Being Human

    On the paradox of finding wholeness and redemption in the fact that we make mistakes.
  • Broken Heart, Open Heart

    Broken Heart, Open Heart

    Beautiful quotes from a fellow traveler.
  • Our Sacred Dust

    Our Sacred Dust

    Today I felt my Beloved in the soil under my feet and in the bark on the trees.
  • The Power of Later

    The Power of Later

    Enter the real “now” by letting go of your concepts of the present.
  • Then the Divine Served Me!

    Then the Divine Served Me!

    Ripples from a monumental act of love now fill my world.  In the presence of profound kindness, every molecule of...
  • The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    Where does suffering originate, and how does one eliminate it? A psychiatrist is someone who, seeing an unusually sad character on...
  • Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Periods of strain can erode your strength and test your faith in life, but there are ways to approach them...
  • Love Your Pain Self

    Love Your Pain Self

    When we experience pain, we create a pain self.  This pain self is connected to a subset of our usual...
  • Never Cutting the Cord of Compassion

    Never Cutting the Cord of Compassion

    Sunday morning I woke up contemplating the process of grief.  Thoughts of former loves constantly fill my mind.  When I...
  • Blissful Just As Things Are

    Blissful Just As Things Are

    Today, I stopped praying for things to get easier.  It just occurred to me that it wasn’t necessary.  For many...