loneliness Archive

  • From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    From Suffering to Energy without Effort

    A table of observations on how specific emotions transform automatically into blissful energy.
  • Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Is your heart heavy today?  I could feel its weight just as the clouds began to fill the sky.  A...
  • Why the Heart Closes

    Why the Heart Closes

    Apathy often has its roots in the odd, unexpected body memory of prior pain that is evoked by new love.
  • Blissful Just As Things Are

    Blissful Just As Things Are

    Today, I stopped praying for things to get easier.  It just occurred to me that it wasn’t necessary.  For many...
  • Karma Is Love

    Karma Is Love

    Rather than an eye for an eye, karma can be seen as an act of love.
  • Cut Off, Part II

    Cut Off, Part II

    The function of compassion for those who feel cut off is to return them to the whole. This is not...
  • Cut Off: The Role of Compassion in Social Death

    Cut Off: The Role of Compassion in Social Death

    Among the most excruciating suffering one can endure is social death. Where does compassion fit in?
  • Transforming Rejection Sensitivity

    Transforming Rejection Sensitivity

    In an era of waning social ties, sensitivity to rejection is common. An article in Psychology Today offers solutions.
  • Breathing Under Water

    Breathing Under Water

    Reaching out for help can inadvertently foster the collective perception that we are all struggling to save ourselves.
  • Ode to a Chick Flick

    Ode to a Chick Flick

    I have watched the movie You’ve Got Mail every week for two months.  One might think I find it appealing...
  • Uncoiling the Downward Spiral

    Uncoiling the Downward Spiral

    Certain needs tend to evoke emotional responses that make the situation worse in a way that aggravates the need, which...
  • Where Did They Go?

    Where Did They Go?

    I want to contact that which is real in others, but the meeting of minds never lasts.  The souls who...
  • The Veil of Total Darkness

    The Veil of Total Darkness

    Being in total darkness recently took on new meaning for me.  Rock bottom is not necessarily a bad place to...
  • Ways of Love

    Ways of Love

    The ways of love include silence and solitude, parting and disharmony–so deep its trust in the core of light within...
  • Evening Soulitude

    Evening Soulitude

    Finding the three things that heal loneliness (sensual connection, conversation, and communion) during an evening of solitude.
  • Cast Away

    Cast Away

    A poem about finding communion during loneliness.
  • Feeding the Hungry

    Feeding the Hungry

    Mother Teresa said, “Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty of all.”  When I think...
  • Samsara and Solipsism

    Samsara and Solipsism

    In Buddhism, samsara refers to a certain way of experiencing reality that involves an endless creation of mental worlds, or...
  • Loving and Wanting to Be Loved

    Loving and Wanting to Be Loved

    The struggle between loving and wanting to be loved is delicate and sometimes confusing but ultimately rife with beautiful life...