healing Archive

  • Data, Data Everywhere and Not a Drop to Think

    Data, Data Everywhere and Not a Drop to Think

    Analyzing the data for my dissertation is highlighting for me the limits of intellectual knowing.  Welcome to the Zen of...
  • Jump In

    Jump In

    The water’s fine!  The expanded self, or luminosity–entering it is like learning to dive into a river.  Over time and...
  • Dissolving the Past

    Dissolving the Past

    Your body carries a record of your past experiences, some deep and old and intense, but the past no longer...
  • A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    A Taste of Love to Order the Feast

    You cannot ask the universe for something if you cannot conceive of it.  In November of last year,...
  • Delusion and Possibility

    Delusion and Possibility

    The deepest healing occurs when we open to the possibility that our perspective can change.
  • Full Circle

    Full Circle

    A chance to be burdened makes it possible to see the immense love that surrounds those who suffer.
  • Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Exquisite Tenderness: Cultivating a Blissful Compassion

    Is your heart heavy today?  I could feel its weight just as the clouds began to fill the sky.  A...
  • Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    If you ask for healing, watch your thoughts. Sometimes the divine speaks with our own inner voice.
  • Why the Heart Closes

    Why the Heart Closes

    Apathy often has its roots in the odd, unexpected body memory of prior pain that is evoked by new love.
  • Empowering Comfort

    Empowering Comfort

    How to identify healthy forms of emotional support and healers that are empowering rather than disempowering.
  • The Perfection of Being Human

    The Perfection of Being Human

    On the paradox of finding wholeness and redemption in the fact that we make mistakes.
  • Love Your Pain Self

    Love Your Pain Self

    When we experience pain, we create a pain self.  This pain self is connected to a subset of our usual...
  • Good Night Moon

    Good Night Moon

    We are never cut off from love. I say farewell to a former love and find that exclusion feels good.
  • Spring in the Dead of Winter

    Spring in the Dead of Winter

    In this frozen moment, your warm consciousness finds all existence waiting.
  • Now What?

    Now What?

    What would you do if your lifelong search for wholeness finally reached the finish line?  If the problems you devoted...
  • Still Luminous

    Still Luminous

    Last night, I was awake all night, while sleeping, enjoying another one of those full nights resting in clear, lucid,...
  • A Long Awaited Apology

    A Long Awaited Apology

    There comes a time when the dark forces in your life step into the light, remove their masks, and reveal...
  • The Holy Fallout

    The Holy Fallout

    Finishing Jan’s book.  And waking up more fully, more deeply.  Dawn taking root.  The holy fallout which I read about...
  • The Island Underneath

    The Island Underneath

    I’m learning to ground myself in something deeper.  I’ve been reading more of Jan’s book (When Fear Falls Away, by...
  • Trusting that You Are Loved

    Trusting that You Are Loved

    When peace and tranquility, bliss even, begins to fill most every moment, healing feels complete.  These past few weeks, I’ve...
  • Soldiers in the Rift, Shaktipat

    Soldiers in the Rift, Shaktipat

    We are enveloped in intricate patterns of perfect healing.  In every moment, from every direction, we’re given exactly what we...
  • Five Phases of Transformation

    Five Phases of Transformation

    I am being reassembled.  The process is unmistakeable.  It’s not over yet, but I feel myself entering a final phase,...
  • Warmth in the Cold

    Warmth in the Cold

    Who do we turn to in times of need? Reflections on loss return me, somehow, to a state of bliss.
  • Close or Remain Open? Loving Past the Expiration Date

    Close or Remain Open? Loving Past the Expiration Date

    How do we continue to love those from whom we are estranged?  Should we remain open to those who move...
  • Out with a Swirl

    Out with a Swirl

    Can one respond to suffering the way a cat responds to falling off a roof?  While meditating one night recently,...
  • Drug Your Emotions Away

    Drug Your Emotions Away

    Can we use drugs to numb our emotional pain without losing our souls?
  • Cut Off, Part II

    Cut Off, Part II

    The function of compassion for those who feel cut off is to return them to the whole. This is not...
  • Cut Off: The Role of Compassion in Social Death

    Cut Off: The Role of Compassion in Social Death

    Among the most excruciating suffering one can endure is social death. Where does compassion fit in?
  • Ferris Wheel from Hell

    Ferris Wheel from Hell

    Mystics and philosophers often describe life as an amusement park ride, exciting at times or downright scary but without real...
  • Holy Fallout

    Holy Fallout

    A poem by Hafiz gives me hope that life can still flourish after disaster.
  • Questioning Quarantine

    Questioning Quarantine

    A conversation in a cafe makes me question the belief that severe depression means love and affection are off limits.
  • Difficult People

    Difficult People

    An essay by Noel McNaughton on how seemingly difficult people enable us to cultivate true compassion.
  • Happy Crazy Eight Day

    Happy Crazy Eight Day

    An adventure in facing worst fears. This particular monster? Psychiatry. I enter with stigma and exit with side effects.
  • Ode to a Chick Flick

    Ode to a Chick Flick

    I have watched the movie You’ve Got Mail every week for two months.  One might think I find it appealing...
  • The Secret Healers

    The Secret Healers

    The greatest healers in my life do not even know they are healing me, and most of the time, neither...
  • Where Did They Go?

    Where Did They Go?

    I want to contact that which is real in others, but the meeting of minds never lasts.  The souls who...
  • Not Enough to Be Numb

    Not Enough to Be Numb

    When weeks of grief and turmoil are broken by a neutral calm, the relief is welcome, but the journey is...
  • Egoless Compassion

    Egoless Compassion

    A meditation designed to cultivate compassion that is free from selfish motivations.  Especially useful for having compassion for those who...
  • Holding to Inner Truth

    Holding to Inner Truth

    It helps to know precisely what you believe in and to hold these truths in your heart when others fail...
  • The Outskirts of Compassion

    The Outskirts of Compassion

    Why it feels so impossible to have compassion for those who cause injury or evoke repulsion and how to reconcile...