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  • I, No Bot

    I, No Bot

    I have been inadvertently weeding out potential suitors with a sort of Buddhist IQ test.  When I first moved to...
  • Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    Tracing a Path from Buried Pain to Love

    If you ask for healing, watch your thoughts. Sometimes the divine speaks with our own inner voice.
  • Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Romantic Love and the Practice of Opening

    Moments of unconditional opening that arise in romantic love offer a taste of the tantric approach to all of life.
  • Empowering Comfort

    Empowering Comfort

    How to identify healthy forms of emotional support and healers that are empowering rather than disempowering.
  • The Perfection of Being Human

    The Perfection of Being Human

    On the paradox of finding wholeness and redemption in the fact that we make mistakes.
  • Our Sacred Dust

    Our Sacred Dust

    Today I felt my Beloved in the soil under my feet and in the bark on the trees.
  • The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    The Psychiatrist, the Psychologist, and the Buddhist

    Where does suffering originate, and how does one eliminate it? A psychiatrist is someone who, seeing an unusually sad character on...
  • Blissful Just As Things Are

    Blissful Just As Things Are

    Today, I stopped praying for things to get easier.  It just occurred to me that it wasn’t necessary.  For many...
  • Stories of Awakening

    Stories of Awakening

    Below are accounts of awakening (e.g., satori, moksha, nirvana, enlightenment) reprinted from various sources, such as Zen Flesh, Zen Bones,...
  • Why Confront Your Demons?

    Why Confront Your Demons?

    An integration of Zen emptiness with New Age form offers one approach to healing our collective samsara.
  • You Are Brand New

    You Are Brand New

    If you are beset by a negative self-image, especially one that is self-fulfilling and reflected back to you by others...
  • Trusting that You Are Loved

    Trusting that You Are Loved

    When peace and tranquility, bliss even, begins to fill most every moment, healing feels complete.  These past few weeks, I’ve...
  • Find Love and Give It All Away

    Find Love and Give It All Away

    What happens when we treasure someone too much? A story of discovering the divine by crushing illusions.
  • Crazy Wisdom: Lessons from the Altar Ego

    Crazy Wisdom: Lessons from the Altar Ego

    An encounter with Buddhist fundamentalism reminds me to look for the hidden teaching in every moment.
  • Love Moves

    Love Moves

    A poem about the effortlessness of divine love followed by an essay on surrender by EnlightenedBeings.com
  • Karma Is Love

    Karma Is Love

    Rather than an eye for an eye, karma can be seen as an act of love.
  • Five Phases of Transformation

    Five Phases of Transformation

    I am being reassembled.  The process is unmistakeable.  It’s not over yet, but I feel myself entering a final phase,...
  • Journey to the Core

    Journey to the Core

    At the center of the earth is an iron core.  The inner core is solid yet hotter than the surface...
  • Transformers

    Transformers

    On a walk through the park along Lake Wingra, I was contemplating the nature of deep transformation.  I imagined a...
  • The Spiritual Sleep Cycle

    The Spiritual Sleep Cycle

    Why does awakening fade?  When even attempts to surrender fail to reproduce it, I realize I am not in charge.
  • Paradoxes of the Path

    Paradoxes of the Path

    What if some experiences that look like personal failures are actually markers of spiritual growth?
  • Whose Heart Awakens?

    Whose Heart Awakens?

    In total love, there are no thoughts of self.  Hence, one does not think, “My heart is awake.”   Rather, we...
  • The Path

    The Path

    The Path of the Waking Heart When one opens unconditionally to love, pain, and desire, an aching heart becomes a waking...
  • Egoless Compassion

    Egoless Compassion

    A meditation designed to cultivate compassion that is free from selfish motivations.  Especially useful for having compassion for those who...
  • Truman Falls Apart

    Truman Falls Apart

    On the verge of seeing through his illusory reality, the main character of The Truman Show has a veritable nervous...
  • A Love Story?

    A Love Story?

    The greatest love story is not about getting everything you want or creating feelings of union, but cherishing the well...
  • What Gives Me Courage

    What Gives Me Courage

    Once you’ve been burned, it’s hard to come close to the fire.  There is light and warmth but also the...
  • Nothing to Protect

    Nothing to Protect

    Keep your heart open when you want to close it, and you will find that the heart needs no shielding.
  • Loving and Wanting to Be Loved

    Loving and Wanting to Be Loved

    The struggle between loving and wanting to be loved is delicate and sometimes confusing but ultimately rife with beautiful life...
  • Serious Angel

    Serious Angel

    During my recent silent meditation retreat, one evening while sitting in the dining hall, it occurred to me that, although...