darkness Archive

  • Dissolving the Past

    Dissolving the Past

    Your body carries a record of your past experiences, some deep and old and intense, but the past no longer...
  • Empowering Comfort

    Empowering Comfort

    How to identify healthy forms of emotional support and healers that are empowering rather than disempowering.
  • The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    The Feminine Path Through Suffering

    Archetypal wisdom on how women’s “falling apart” can open the doors to awakening.
  • The Perfection of Being Human

    The Perfection of Being Human

    On the paradox of finding wholeness and redemption in the fact that we make mistakes.
  • Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Real Lovers Serve in Ecstasy

    Periods of strain can erode your strength and test your faith in life, but there are ways to approach them...
  • Finding Your Power

    Finding Your Power

    The tribal-minded people, like orchids, wither here.  The souls looking for sun and rain on the outside, for a hospitable...
  • A Long Awaited Apology

    A Long Awaited Apology

    There comes a time when the dark forces in your life step into the light, remove their masks, and reveal...
  • The Fine Line Between Absorbtion and Lucidity

    The Fine Line Between Absorbtion and Lucidity

    The ultimate goal of the spiritual path is to become lucid.  Mindfulness meditation, the favored technique for beginners, is a...
  • Paradoxes of the Path

    Paradoxes of the Path

    What if some experiences that look like personal failures are actually markers of spiritual growth?
  • Where Did They Go?

    Where Did They Go?

    I want to contact that which is real in others, but the meeting of minds never lasts.  The souls who...
  • The Path

    The Path

    The Path of the Waking Heart When one opens unconditionally to love, pain, and desire, an aching heart becomes a...
  • About

    About

    Waking Heart is a collection of personal essays, articles, and videos about love, relationships, and emotion in the domain of...
  • The Veil of Total Darkness

    The Veil of Total Darkness

    Being in total darkness recently took on new meaning for me.  Rock bottom is not necessarily a bad place to...
  • Not Enough to Be Numb

    Not Enough to Be Numb

    When weeks of grief and turmoil are broken by a neutral calm, the relief is welcome, but the journey is...
  • At War with Depression

    At War with Depression

    You may have won many battles with depression. Why can’t you win the war? A new way to...
  • You Ain’t Heavy

    You Ain’t Heavy

    Yesterday morning, I was on my way to spend time with a friend who was offering companionship during a time...